從校園出來工(gong)作(zuo)后，我似乎真(zhen)的能感(gan)受(shou)到世界上各種各樣的興趣，不再(zai)那么簡單(dan)了。似乎即(ji)使交(jiao)(jiao)朋(peng)友也與(yu)興趣有(you)關，有(you)用的人也可以與(yu)他(ta)人交(jiao)(jiao)流(liu)。但只有(you)當一個(ge)朋(peng)友有(you)三種相似的觀點時，他(ta)才被稱為(wei)朋(peng)友，只有(you)當你真(zhen)正認識(shi)另一個(ge)人時，他(ta)才被稱為(wei)朋(peng)友。許(xu)多人交(jiao)(jiao)朋(peng)友是為(wei)了看到他(ta)們的身份，但這四個(ge)星座并不是基于物質(zhi)交(jiao)(jiao)朋(peng)友。
白羊座：陽光明媚
白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座的(de)人陽光明媚。有時他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)覺得自己只是(shi)有點緊張和隨(sui)和。這(zhe)是(shi)白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座直率的(de)性格(ge)。白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座不喜歡繞(rao)圈子。他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)覺得很(hen)(hen)累，所以喜歡直走，隨(sui)便交朋友(you)。說白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)了，白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座不喜歡取悅和迎合別(bie)人，所以白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座的(de)人通常不太重(zhong)視對方的(de)家庭和地位。白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座愿意和他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)交朋友(you)，只要他(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)是(shi)好人。對白(bai)(bai)(bai)(bai)羊座來說，一個人的(de)性格(ge)是(shi)最重(zhong)要的(de)，他(ta)(ta)是(shi)最有價值的(de)，別(bie)人不是(shi)很(hen)(hen)重(zhong)要。
金牛座：不拜金
金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)的(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)愛(ai)錢，但金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)不(bu)拜金(jin)。金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)的(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)比金(jin)錢更看(kan)重一個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)性格。由(you)于金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)不(bu)善于溝通，安靜的(de)金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)很少與人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)交(jiao)流。至于交(jiao)朋友(you)，金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)很小心(xin)。并(bing)非每(mei)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都能成為金(jin)牛(niu)座(zuo)的(de)朋友(you)。有錢沒(mei)素質(zhi)(zhi)的(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)懶惰(duo)，走得遠。相(xiang)反，性格好的(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，即使(shi)沒(mei)有財富，仍(reng)然(ran)愿意和他們交(jiao)朋友(you)。所以(yi)，牛(niu)真的(de)不(bu)看(kan)物質(zhi)(zhi)的(de)東西(xi)。不(bu)要(yao)以(yi)為牛(niu)愛(ai)錢，把(ba)富人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)當天(tian)堂。牛(niu)最看(kan)不(bu)起的(de)就(jiu)是這樣的(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。你不(bu)知道談論金(jin)錢會(hui)傷害你的(de)感情嗎(ma)？
天秤座：追求和平
天秤(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)座(zuo)喜歡(huan)追求平等和(he)諧，所以他(ta)(ta)們平等對(dui)待(dai)朋(peng)友。天秤(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)座(zuo)不(bu)喜歡(huan)跟風(feng)。雖然很多人在(zai)這個社(she)會(hui)生(sheng)活和(he)工作，他(ta)(ta)們會(hui)選(xuan)擇對(dui)自己更有(you)利的人來交流，讓自己的事業達(da)到(dao)更高的水平，但天秤(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)座(zuo)會(hui)認(ren)為這是不(bu)公平的。天秤(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)座(zuo)的人認(ren)為朋(peng)友應該得到(dao)真誠(cheng)的對(dui)待(dai)。假(jia)如(ru)他(ta)(ta)們不(bu)用心(xin)交流，他(ta)(ta)們就不(bu)是朋(peng)友，只(zhi)是他(ta)(ta)們認(ren)識的人。天秤(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)座(zuo)的人通過看對(dui)方的內(nei)心(xin)而不(bu)是外在(zai)的東西來交朋(peng)友。
水瓶座：注重友誼
水(shui)(shui)瓶座(zuo)(zuo)的(de)(de)人(ren)有(you)自己的(de)(de)方式(shi)，因為他(ta)們(men)知道自己想做什么(me)，所以水(shui)(shui)瓶座(zuo)(zuo)通常不(bu)會(hui)因為別人(ren)的(de)(de)眼睛而改(gai)變主意。當然(ran)，這也可以體(ti)現在(zai)交(jiao)朋友(you)(you)(you)上。雖然(ran)水(shui)(shui)瓶座(zuo)(zuo)的(de)(de)人(ren)知道什么(me)對他(ta)們(men)有(you)好處(chu)，但他(ta)們(men)不(bu)僅(jin)關(guan)注彼此的(de)(de)物質條(tiao)件，還關(guan)注彼此的(de)(de)靈魂。水(shui)(shui)瓶座(zuo)(zuo)會(hui)觀(guan)察(cha)你是(shi)否是(shi)一個值(zhi)得深(shen)厚友(you)(you)(you)誼(yi)(yi)的(de)(de)善(shan)良導師。假(jia)如你不(bu)是(shi)一個善(shan)良的(de)(de)人(ren)，即(ji)使你很(hen)富(fu)有(you)，水(shui)(shui)瓶座(zuo)(zuo)也不(bu)會(hui)有(you)深(shen)厚的(de)(de)友(you)(you)(you)誼(yi)(yi)，當然(ran)，也不(bu)會(hui)破裂，只(zhi)是(shi)一個你認識的(de)(de)陌(mo)生人(ren)。(未經許可不(bu)得轉載十二星座(zuo)(zuo)網原創文章！）
在線測算
大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)利(li)(li)(li)與(yu)(yu)(yu)弊(bi)(bi)(論文(wen)) 正如(ru)法國作(zuo)(zuo)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)雨果(guo)曾說(shuo)過(guo)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)兩次出(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)：頭一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)次是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)開(kai)(kai)(kai)始(shi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)那一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天；第二(er)(er)次， 則是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)萌(meng)發(fa)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)那一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)天。對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)來(lai)(lai)講，如(ru)果(guo)說(shuo)進入(ru)(ru)了(le)(le)(le)(le)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)但(dan)(dan)(dan)從(cong)(cong)(cong)沒(mei)(mei)想過(guo)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事，也(ye)(ye)(ye)許(xu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu) 太現(xian)(xian)實(shi)(shi)，套用(yong)弗(fu)洛(luo)伊德的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)詞匯，意(yi)(yi)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)狀態(tai)沒(mei)(mei)想潛意(yi)(yi)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)想。但(dan)(dan)(dan)想愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)等(deng)于(yu)(yu)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)擁有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)， 擁有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)等(deng)于(yu)(yu)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)幸福(fu)(fu)與(yu)(yu)(yu)快樂。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)直來(lai)(lai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們(men)(men)(men)(men)討論的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)題(ti)。 就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)利(li)(li)(li)與(yu)(yu)(yu)弊(bi)(bi)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)往的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)觀(guan)(guan)點主要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)三種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)：一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，利(li)(li)(li)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)于(yu)(yu)弊(bi)(bi)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)已經(jing)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao) 能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)齡(ling)，愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)必修(xiu)課；二(er)(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，弊(bi)(bi)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)于(yu)(yu)利(li)(li)(li)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)應以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)，戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)分(fen)(fen)散(san) 學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)(jian)與(yu)(yu)(yu)精(jing)(jing)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)應提倡(chang)；三是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，利(li)(li)(li)弊(bi)(bi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)定，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切因(yin)(yin)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)異(yi)(yi)。我們(men)(men)(men)(men)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai) 是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)鍵在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)于(yu)(yu)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)們(men)(men)(men)(men)進行(xing)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)引(yin)導，使之(zhi)樹立(li)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀(guan)(guan)，那么戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai) 中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)各種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)解(jie)(jie)(jie)決的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，弊(bi)(bi)端是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)該問(wen)(wen)題(ti)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)出(chu)(chu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)分(fen)(fen)析。 一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)特(te)點 （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)） 、愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀(guan)(guan)多(duo)(duo)元化(hua)。 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)歸宿(su)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)婚(hun)姻家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭， 過(guo)去(qu)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)基(ji)(ji)本(ben)(ben)都(dou)遵循這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀(guan)(guan)， 而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 婚(hun)姻為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)目(mu)(mu)(mu)標(biao)，戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)動(dong)(dong)機和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)目(mu)(mu)(mu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)多(duo)(duo)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)多(duo)(duo)樣。據(ju)調查(cha)(cha)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 20%的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)后(hou)(hou)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian) 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)打基(ji)(ji)礎(chu),其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)余(yu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)受(shou)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)因(yin)(yin)素影響(xiang)。 仍有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)十分(fen)(fen)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)看(kan)(kan)(kan)待(dai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)與(yu)(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)， 30% 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)依(yi)舊(jiu)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)， 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)很(hen)多(duo)(duo)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)只(zhi)(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)排解(jie)(jie)(jie)空虛。 這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)觀(guan)(guan)勢(shi)必會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui) 影響(xiang)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)與(yu)(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)。 （二(er)(er)） 、注(zhu)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)，輕視戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)結(jie)果(guo)。 當(dang)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)注(zhu)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)，至(zhi)于(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)結(jie)果(guo)已經(jing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)太在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)意(yi)(yi)。注(zhu)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)，有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 利(li)(li)(li)于(yu)(yu)雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)相(xiang)(xiang)互了(le)(le)(le)(le)解(jie)(jie)(jie)、加(jia)深認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)利(li)(li)(li)于(yu)(yu)培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)感情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)、增加(jia)心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)相(xiang)(xiang)容度。但(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，只(zhi)(zhi)注(zhu)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo) 程(cheng)(cheng)，強(qiang)調愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)"現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)進行(xing)時(shi)(shi)"，把戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)與(yu)(yu)(yu)婚(hun)姻相(xiang)(xiang)分(fen)(fen)離，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)考(kao)慮愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)"將來(lai)(lai)完(wan)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)時(shi)(shi)"，未免(mian)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)之(zhi)偏 頗。只(zhi)(zhi)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)，輕視戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)結(jie)果(guo)，實(shi)(shi)質(zhi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)只(zhi)(zhi)強(qiang)調愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)權利(li)(li)(li)，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)否認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)了(le)(le)(le)(le)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。 （三） 、日(ri)益呈現(xian)(xian)出(chu)(chu)低齡(ling)化(hua)于(yu)(yu)公(gong)開(kai)(kai)(kai)化(hua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)趨勢(shi) 一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般來(lai)(lai)說(shuo)，20 世紀 80 年(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)及 90 年(nian)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)初(chu)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)三、四(si)年(nian)級居多(duo)(duo)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、二(er)(er) 年(nian)級比(bi)較(jiao)少。現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)許(xu)多(duo)(duo)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)入(ru)(ru)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)后(hou)(hou)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)久就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)紛紛墜入(ru)(ru)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)河，出(chu)(chu)現(xian)(xian)了(le)(le)(le)(le)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)群體低齡(ling)化(hua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)趨勢(shi)。 據(ju)調查(cha)(cha)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)、大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)二(er)(er)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)數分(fen)(fen)別(bie)占該年(nian)級參加(jia)調查(cha)(cha)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)數的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 12%與(yu)(yu)(yu) 26%。 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)主要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)由二(er)(er)十幾歲的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)年(nian)輕人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)聚集在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)起的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)小社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)中(zhong)(zhong)， 大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)現(xian)(xian)象(xiang)已由過(guo)去(qu) 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)猶抱琵(pi)琶半遮面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)轉化(hua)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)河中(zhong)(zhong)公(gong)開(kai)(kai)(kai)徜徉(yang)，進而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)校園內(nei)(nei)眾生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)現(xian)(xian)實(shi)(shi)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)。 盡管學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)校并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)提倡(chang)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，但(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)們(men)(men)(men)(men)看(kan)(kan)(kan)來(lai)(lai)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)影響(xiang)他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)發(fa)展(zhan)(zhan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)。有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些(xie)(xie)(xie)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong) 學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)將戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)作(zuo)(zuo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)經(jing)歷的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)部分(fen)(fen)，并(bing)(bing)(bing)且(qie)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)此(ci)(ci)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)榮，更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)甚者將此(ci)(ci)作(zuo)(zuo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)炫(xuan)耀的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)資本(ben)(ben)。 二(er)(er)、戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)利(li)(li)(li) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)） 、戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)機會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui) 責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)何情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況(kuang)下(xia)都(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)品質(zhi)之(zhi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)， 而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)中(zhong)(zhong)男(nan)女雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)則顯得(de)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong) 要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)。愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)從(cong)(cong)(cong)來(lai)(lai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)孤立(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)活(huo)動(dong)(dong)，雙(shuang)方(fang)(fang)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)征途(tu)中(zhong)(zhong)風雨同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)舟，患難與(yu)(yu)(yu)共(gong)，彼此(ci)(ci)間(jian)(jian)(jian) 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)才(cai)(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)真(zhen)正帶(dai)(dai)來(lai)(lai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)幸福(fu)(fu)。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)步(bu)入(ru)(ru)社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)前大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)多(duo)(duo)都(dou)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)父(fu)(fu)母(mu)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)照(zhao)料下(xia)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)， 思(si)想上(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)獨立(li)性(xing)(xing)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)依(yi)賴性(xing)(xing)都(dou)極(ji)強(qiang)， 但(dan)(dan)(dan)當(dang)開(kai)(kai)(kai)始(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)后(hou)(hou)， 受(shou)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)主心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響(xiang)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)開(kai)(kai)(kai)始(shi)追(zhui) 求獨立(li)并(bing)(bing)(bing)逐(zhu)漸擺脫家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭過(guo)多(duo)(duo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)束(shu)(shu)縛(fu)， 此(ci)(ci)時(shi)(shi)如(ru)果(guo)加(jia)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)誘導和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)教育， 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)利(li)(li)(li)于(yu)(yu)培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)感和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)意(yi)(yi)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。 要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)懂得(de)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)負責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)負責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)， 為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)負責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)， 同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)樣更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)負責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)。 這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣今(jin)后(hou)(hou)步(bu)入(ru)(ru)社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)才(cai)(cai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)可(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。 （二(er)(er)） 、戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)助(zhu)于(yu)(yu)他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)如(ru)何與(yu)(yu)(yu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)特(te)別(bie)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)與(yu)(yu)(yu)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)相(xiang)(xiang)處 男(nan)女原(yuan)本(ben)(ben)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)， 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)思(si)想和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)行(xing)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)上(shang)(shang)(shang)往往存在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)較(jiao)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)差(cha)異(yi)(yi)， 大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)今(jin)后(hou)(hou)步(bu)入(ru)(ru)社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)與(yu)(yu)(yu)很(hen)多(duo)(duo)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)接(jie)(jie)觸(chu)(chu)，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)(xie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)事的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)復雜性(xing)(xing)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)難以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)想象(xiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，所(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)，現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交流接(jie)(jie) 觸(chu)(chu)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)了(le)(le)(le)(le)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)鍛煉的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)機會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)。培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)表(biao)(biao)達(da)，判斷，選(xuan)擇(ze)等(deng)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)便于(yu)(yu)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)好(hao)(hao)地(di)(di)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he) 他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)溝通(tong)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)達(da)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)相(xiang)(xiang)互理(li)(li)(li)解(jie)(jie)(jie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)目(mu)(mu)(mu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 處理(li)(li)(li)好(hao)(hao)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)中(zhong)(zhong)，與(yu)(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)外(wai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)，無疑也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)鍛煉。怎(zen)樣既 能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)與(yu)(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)保(bao)持親密(mi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)， 卻不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)影響(xiang)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交往， 這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)利(li)(li)(li)于(yu)(yu)我們(men)(men)(men)(men)分(fen)(fen)清 1 友誼與(yu)(yu)(yu)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)差(cha)別(bie)，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)日(ri)后(hou)(hou)處理(li)(li)(li)類似問(wen)(wen)題(ti)也(ye)(ye)(ye)提供了(le)(le)(le)(le)經(jing)驗。 （三） 、自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)我愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)實(shi)(shi)現(xian)(xian) 凡(fan)高(gao)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)句格言“會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)才(cai)(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)才(cai)(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)工作(zuo)(zuo)。 ”愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)如(ru)果(guo)沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)或者不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)愿意(yi)(yi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)那么他(ta)(ta)(ta)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)完(wan)整的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)， 他(ta)(ta)(ta)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)缺乏這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)奉 獻的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)包容的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)理(li)(li)(li)解(jie)(jie)(jie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)信任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，當(dang)你(ni)(ni)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)(xie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)候你(ni)(ni)也(ye)(ye)(ye) 許(xu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)感到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)幾分(fen)(fen)辛苦(ku)但(dan)(dan)(dan)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)多(duo)(duo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)將是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)幸福(fu)(fu)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)快樂。 三、校園戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)弊(bi)(bi)端 （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)） 、對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響(xiang) 對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)執著(zhu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)多(duo)(duo)欣賞羅(luo)曼&S226;羅(luo)蘭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)名言：沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)場深刻的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng) 就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)等(deng)于(yu)(yu)虛度一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)場。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)兩大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)課題(ti)，如(ru)何處理(li)(li)(li)好(hao)(hao)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)與(yu)(yu)(yu)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)， 一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)直是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)令(ling)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)感到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)頭疼的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)難題(ti)。 許(xu)多(duo)(duo)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)，自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)與(yu)(yu)(yu)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)兩不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)誤(wu)。如(ru)接(jie)(jie)受(shou)采訪的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)所(suo)(suo)言，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 前提是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)男(nan)(女)朋(peng)(peng)友的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)選(xuan)擇(ze)，通(tong)常他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)選(xuan)擇(ze)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)男(nan)（女）朋(peng)(peng)友必是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)志同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)道(dao)合， 不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)影響(xiang)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)否認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)那些(xie)(xie)(xie)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)目(mu)(mu)(mu)標(biao)明確(que)(que)、自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)制(zhi)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)強(qiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)。但(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，依(yi)舊(jiu)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 很(hen)多(duo)(duo)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)尤(you)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)初(chu)入(ru)(ru)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)新生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)， 他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)中(zhong)(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)很(hen)多(duo)(duo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)習(xi)慣了(le)(le)(le)(le)中(zhong)(zhong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)時(shi)(shi)被管制(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)， 曾經(jing)考(kao)上(shang)(shang)(shang)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da) 學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)目(mu)(mu)(mu)標(biao)， 而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)此(ci)(ci)時(shi)(shi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)往往還沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)找到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)目(mu)(mu)(mu)標(biao)， 對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi) 并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)十分(fen)(fen)清晰(xi)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)否可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)理(li)(li)(li)智的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)選(xuan)擇(ze)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)象(xiang)，使自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)受(shou)影響(xiang)則很(hen)難保(bao)證。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da) 學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)漸進的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)，需(xu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)付(fu)出(chu)(chu)主要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)(jian)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)精(jing)(jing)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)；而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)圓滿(man)(man)地(di)(di)完(wan)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)，需(xu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)付(fu) 出(chu)(chu)加(jia)倍的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)努力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。但(dan)(dan)(dan)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 68%同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)因(yin)(yin)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)提出(chu)(chu)請(qing)求而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)去(qu)參加(jia)原(yuan)本(ben)(ben)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)打算(suan)參加(jia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)娛樂活(huo) 動(dong)(dong)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)勢(shi)必會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)影響(xiang)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)(jian)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)精(jing)(jing)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)分(fen)(fen)配。而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)務的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)艱巨性(xing)(xing)，決定了(le)(le)(le)(le)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)間(jian)(jian)(jian) 和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)精(jing)(jing)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)過(guo)于(yu)(yu)分(fen)(fen)散(san)。因(yin)(yin)此(ci)(ci)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)打下(xia)牢固學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)之(zhi)后(hou)(hou)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)才(cai)(cai)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)從(cong)(cong)(cong)事如(ru)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)等(deng)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 外(wai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)活(huo)動(dong)(dong)。學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)夠牢固情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況(kuang)下(xia)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)業(ye)(ye)(ye)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)利(li)(li)(li)影響(xiang)，情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況(kuang)嚴重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)者還會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)引(yin)起 大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)緒(xu)上(shang)(shang)(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)較(jiao)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)波動(dong)(dong)，從(cong)(cong)(cong)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)厭學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)、輟學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)等(deng)嚴重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)后(hou)(hou)果(guo)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)良(liang)現(xian)(xian)象(xiang)。 （二(er)(er)） 、大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，誰來(lai)(lai)買單？ 戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)單純理(li)(li)(li)念化(hua)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)，更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)實(shi)(shi)踐過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)。戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)實(shi)(shi)踐需(xu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)定的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)物質(zhi)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu) 考(kao)慮物質(zhi)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)柏拉圖式(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，只(zhi)(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)神(shen)相(xiang)(xiang)通(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)帶(dai)(dai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)神(shen)秘色(se)彩(cai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)精(jing)(jing)神(shen)狀態(tai)。 當(dang)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)經(jing)濟上(shang)(shang)(shang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)獨立(li)， 學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)習(xi)階段(duan)所(suo)(suo)需(xu)費用(yong)主要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)由家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)庭支(zhi)(zhi)撐。 據(ju)析， 大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)支(zhi)(zhi)出(chu)(chu)， 除了(le)(le)(le)(le)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)部分(fen)(fen)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)從(cong)(cong)(cong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)費里省出(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)， 當(dang)然(ran)也(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)。 看(kan)(kan)(kan)來(lai)(lai)昂貴的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) “戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)消費” 最終還得(de)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)來(lai)(lai)買單。 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)專家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)分(fen)(fen)析指(zhi)出(chu)(chu)①：大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)(ge)(ge)年(nian)齡(ling)段(duan)正是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)接(jie)(jie)觸(chu)(chu)時(shi)(shi)尚、渴望(wang)浪(lang)(lang)漫的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)時(shi)(shi)期(qi)，缺乏社(she)(she)(she)(she)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai) 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)現(xian)(xian)實(shi)(shi)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)理(li)(li)(li)性(xing)(xing)，對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)浪(lang)(lang)漫要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)求程(cheng)(cheng)度高(gao)，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切都(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)物質(zhi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，所(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing) 消費自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)高(gao)了(le)(le)(le)(le)些(xie)(xie)(xie)。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)高(gao)消費已不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)，已衍生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)了(le)(le)(le)(le)高(gao)校學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)子(zi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀(guan)(guan)、消費 觀(guan)(guan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)普遍問(wen)(wen)題(ti)。作(zuo)(zuo)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)新時(shi)(shi)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)“蜜罐里”長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)代(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)(dai)，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)們(men)(men)(men)(men)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)必要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)好(hao)(hao)好(hao)(hao)反(fan)思(si)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing) 為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)。 （三） 、是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)二(er)(er)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)世界的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)局限還是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)朋(peng)(peng)友圈子(zi)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)廣泛 具有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)調查(cha)(cha)數據(ju)顯示(shi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 25％沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)身(shen)邊談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)后(hou)(hou)疏遠了(le)(le)(le)(le)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)前 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)朋(peng)(peng)友， 這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)與(yu)(yu)(yu)原(yuan)本(ben)(ben)希望(wang)因(yin)(yin)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)接(jie)(jie)觸(chu)(chu)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)多(duo)(duo)朋(peng)(peng)友的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愿望(wang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)相(xiang)(xiang)符的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 經(jing)貿學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)院組織部部長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)邵 文(wen)雋接(jie)(jie)受(shou)采訪時(shi)(shi)所(suo)(suo)言，戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)最大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)弊(bi)(bi)端就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)限制(zhi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)際(ji)交往的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)范圍。 身(shen)邊有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)了(le)(le)(le)(le)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)， 別(bie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)尤(you)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)朋(peng)(peng)友為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)間(jian)(jian)(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)誤(wu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)與(yu)(yu)(yu)之(zhi)保(bao)持一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 定的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)距離。這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)況(kuang)屢見不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)鮮(xian)，往往談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)過(guo)分(fen)(fen)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)注(zhu)意(yi)(yi)與(yu)(yu)(yu)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)，并(bing)(bing)(bing)未意(yi)(yi)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi) 到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)朋(peng)(peng)友們(men)(men)(men)(men)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)覺(jue)之(zhi)間(jian)(jian)(jian)已經(jing)漸漸的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)疏遠。而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)且(qie)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 30％的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)未談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)過(guo) 程(cheng)(cheng)中(zhong)(zhong)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)得(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)。因(yin)(yin)此(ci)(ci)，戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)際(ji)交往的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響(xiang)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)忽(hu)視。 （四(si)） 、失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)損失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)嗎？ 戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)總有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)付(fu)出(chu)(chu)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)旦(dan)當(dang)你(ni)(ni)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)，你(ni)(ni)曾經(jing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)付(fu)出(chu)(chu)將很(hen)難收回，尤(you)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)精(jing)(jing)神(shen)方(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)付(fu)出(chu)(chu)。 90%的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)目(mu)(mu)(mu)前的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)真(zhen)付(fu)出(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)， 67%的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)表(biao)(biao)示(shi)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)因(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)此(ci)(ci)次戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi) 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 敗而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)深受(shou)影響(xiang)。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)發(fa)展(zhan)(zhan)上(shang)(shang)(shang)并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)十分(fen)(fen)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)熟(shu)，情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)緒(xu)波動(dong)(dong)較(jiao)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)，易感情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)用(yong)事，失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi) 2 造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)影響(xiang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)陰(yin)影期(qi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響(xiang)尚屬(shu)正常， 但(dan)(dan)(dan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)些(xie)(xie)(xie)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)正 確(que)(que)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)待(dai)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)， 他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)(men)(men)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)后(hou)(hou)所(suo)(suo)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)臨的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)則更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)嚴重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)。 其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)中(zhong)(zhong)最不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)接(jie)(jie)受(shou)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)莫過(guo)于(yu)(yu)因(yin)(yin)此(ci)(ci)而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)結(jie)束(shu)(shu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命。 失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)本(ben)(ben)身(shen)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)意(yi)(yi)味著(zhu)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)份感情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)結(jie)束(shu)(shu)，而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)它所(suo)(suo)造(zao)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)影響(xiang)更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)持久的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，因(yin)(yin)此(ci)(ci)，失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)亦是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)損失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。 四(si)、正確(que)(que)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)待(dai)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)中(zhong)(zhong)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang) （一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)） 、愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)必修(xiu)課還是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)選(xuan)修(xiu)課？ 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)本(ben)(ben)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命態(tai)度。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)活(huo)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)世界上(shang)(shang)(shang)都(dou)需(xu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)與(yu)(yu)(yu)被愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)。我們(men)(men)(men)(men)出(chu)(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)后(hou)(hou)得(de)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)父(fu)(fu)母(mu)給予(yu)我們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)了(le)(le)(le)(le)青春期(qi)，便渴望(wang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)來(lai)(lai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)異(yi)(yi)性(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)只(zhi)(zhi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong) 態(tai)度，更(geng)(geng)(geng)(geng)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命之(zhi)道(dao)。愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)與(yu)(yu)(yu)被愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)顯然(ran)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)與(yu)(yu)(yu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)俱(ju)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本(ben)(ben)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)需(xu)求。 心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)艾(ai)立(li)克森認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)， 在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)青春期(qi)后(hou)(hou)期(qi)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)年(nian)早期(qi)我們(men)(men)(men)(men)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)臨的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)首(shou)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)務是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)建立(li)深厚而(er)(er)(er)(er)(er)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 意(yi)(yi)義(yi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)際(ji)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)，其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)中(zhong)(zhong)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)中(zhong)(zhong)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)項重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)內(nei)(nei)容。大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)恰(qia)處于(yu)(yu)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)時(shi)(shi)期(qi)，所(suo)(suo)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing) 渴望(wang)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)向(xiang)往其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)實(shi)(shi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)然(ran)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)過(guo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)。在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)尋求愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)茫(mang)茫(mang)路上(shang)(shang)(shang)，既充滿(man)(man)了(le)(le)(le)(le)期(qi)待(dai)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)遇(yu)到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong) 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)坎坷。愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)可(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)并(bing)(bing)(bing)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)因(yin)(yin)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)我們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)期(qi)待(dai)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)馬上(shang)(shang)(shang)降臨，但(dan)(dan)(dan)相(xiang)(xiang)信有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)美好(hao)(hao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，并(bing)(bing)(bing)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)去(qu)擁 有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)她也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)心(xin)(xin)(xin)里成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)部分(fen)(fen)。 （二(er)(er)） 、做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)好(hao)(hao)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)儲備 1、先(xian)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji) 《圣經(jing)》中(zhong)(zhong)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)句話(hua)：當(dang)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)前，首(shou)先(xian)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)。愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)表(biao)(biao) 現(xian)(xian)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)信心(xin)(xin)(xin)，能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)欣賞自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)，肯定自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)時(shi)(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)某次的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)敗來(lai)(lai)否決自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)，這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)樣 就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)比(bi)較(jiao)主動(dong)(dong)地(di)(di)去(qu)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)，去(qu)追(zhui)求。 真(zhen)正的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)正如(ru)心(xin)(xin)(xin)理(li)(li)(li)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)家(jia)(jia)(jia)(jia)弗(fu)洛(luo)姆講的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，意(yi)(yi)味著(zhu)“關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)心(xin)(xin)(xin)、尊(zun)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)、責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)所(suo)(suo)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren) 的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)幸福(fu)(fu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)積極(ji)主動(dong)(dong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)奮斗，他(ta)(ta)(ta)根(gen)植于(yu)(yu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)身(shen)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)。“人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)命、成(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)(cheng)長(chang)(chang)(chang)(chang)、幸 ” 福(fu)(fu)、自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)由的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)確(que)(que)定，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)樣根(gen)植于(yu)(yu)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)心(xin)(xin)(xin)、尊(zun)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)、責(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)(ze)任(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、認(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)。如(ru)果(guo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)產生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)也(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu) 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)，如(ru)果(guo)他(ta)(ta)(ta)僅(jin)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)根(gen)本(ben)(ben)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)。 ”在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)前先(xian)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)十分(fen)(fen)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 2、內(nei)(nei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)儲滿(man)(man)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai) 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)首(shou)先(xian)看(kan)(kan)(kan)內(nei)(nei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)儲存了(le)(le)(le)(le)多(duo)(duo)少愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)給予(yu)， 如(ru)果(guo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)內(nei)(nei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)干枯的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)， 沒(mei)(mei)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi) 付(fu)出(chu)(chu)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)缺乏愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)基(ji)(ji)礎(chu)。 （三） 、培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li) 1、何為(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)(wei)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li) 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)指(zhi)和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)建立(li)親密(mi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)， 它對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)切發(fa)展(zhan)(zhan)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)著(zhu)重(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)意(yi)(yi)義(yi)。 具備愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de) 能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)會(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)(hui)引(yin)導一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)去(qu)真(zhen)正地(di)(di)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)他(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)， 也(ye)(ye)(ye)真(zhen)正地(di)(di)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)， 能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)真(zhen)正體驗到(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)給人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)帶(dai)(dai)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)快樂和(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)(he)幸 福(fu)(fu)。戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)也(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)培(pei)(pei)(pei)(pei)養(yang)(yang)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)過(guo)程(cheng)(cheng)。 2、愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)多(duo)(duo)個(ge)(ge)(ge)層面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian) 愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)多(duo)(duo)個(ge)(ge)(ge)層面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)包括：識(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)別(bie)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)、表(biao)(biao)達(da)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)、接(jie)(jie)受(shou)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)、拒絕愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng) 力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)、解(jie)(jie)(jie)決愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)沖突的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)、面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)失(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)承受(shou)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)等(deng)。只(zhi)(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)具備了(le)(le)(le)(le)這(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)(zhe)些(xie)(xie)(xie)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)才(cai)(cai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)可(ke)(ke)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)去(qu) 面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，敢于(yu)(yu)接(jie)(jie)受(shou)屬(shu)于(yu)(yu)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，獲得(de)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)，戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)時(shi)(shi)才(cai)(cai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)去(qu)解(jie)(jie)(jie)決矛盾。 只(zhi)(zhi)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)內(nei)(nei)心(xin)(xin)(xin)儲滿(man)(man)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)，并(bing)(bing)(bing)且(qie)具有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)才(cai)(cai)能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)夠真(zhen)正的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)自(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)(zi)己(ji)(ji)(ji)(ji)、愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。他(ta)(ta)(ta)才(cai)(cai)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you) 能(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)(neng)力(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)(li)享(xiang)有(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)(you)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)帶(dai)(dai)來(lai)(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)幸福(fu)(fu)。 通(tong)過(guo)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)網(wang)上(shang)(shang)(shang)、圖書館查(cha)(cha)閱大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)量(liang)資料，采訪一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)些(xie)(xie)(xie)優秀的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)及對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)調查(cha)(cha)問(wen)(wen)卷的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)分(fen)(fen)析等(deng)多(duo)(duo) 方(fang)(fang)面(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)工作(zuo)(zuo)， 以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)上(shang)(shang)(shang)從(cong)(cong)(cong)現(xian)(xian)在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)特(te)點以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)及大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)利(li)(li)(li)弊(bi)(bi)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)出(chu)(chu)客觀(guan)(guan)分(fen)(fen)析。 再次表(biao)(biao)明 我們(men)(men)(men)(men)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)觀(guan)(guan)點，大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)談(tan)(tan)戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可(ke)(ke)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，其(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)(qi)關(guan)(guan)(guan)(guan)鍵在(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)(zai)于(yu)(yu)對(dui)(dui)(dui)(dui)大(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)(da)學(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)(xue)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)們(men)(men)(men)(men)進行(xing)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)引(yin)導，使之(zhi)樹 立(li)正確(que)(que)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)情(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)(qing)觀(guan)(guan)，那么戀(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)(lian)愛(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)(ai)中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)各種(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)(zhong)問(wen)(wen)題(ti)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)解(jie)(jie)(jie)決的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，弊(bi)(bi)端是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)(ke)以(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)避(bi)(bi)免(mian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)。 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一、渣女有三不原則
不主動、不拒絕、不負責。渣女絕對不會主動聯系你，不會像一般女人那樣，如果真心喜歡一個人，會恨不得分分秒秒黏在對方身邊，或者找一些有趣的話題和對方搭話。渣女也不會在接受禮物的時候拒絕你，不會像一般女人那樣，心里排斥一個人就不會接受男生的饋贈。渣女不會對你的感情負責，態度忽遠忽近，給你一種若即若離的感覺，千方百計吊著你。
二、渣女排斥同性，異性緣卻很好
正因為女人更了解女人，所以渣女在同性中往往因為品性問題沒有好人緣。她們對待同性經常不友好，害怕真面目被拆穿，常常沒事找事。相反的，對于男人，她們更容易灌迷魂湯，所以渣女往往會有一大票弟弟、哥哥、男閨蜜。她們秉著“廣撒網，多捕魚，選大魚，養小魚”的原則，常常主動隨意地去聯系異性，跟他們聊天，分享自己的感情。
三、喜歡裝純，扮無知
渣女深諳男女之道，卻偏偏裝出清純無知的模樣蠱惑男人。她們都是些心機婊，和不怎么熟悉的人特別熱絡，遇到旁人失意，不管熟不熟，往往第一時間安慰，偽正能量滿滿，實則內心冷若冰霜。她們又都是些綠茶婊，喜歡偽裝成小白兔，表面心愛純真其實內心狡詐。她們人前裝扮可愛，人后刻薄挑剔，對上司滿臉堆笑，對同僚指桑罵槐。
四、喜歡算計，愛貪小便宜
“渣(zha)女”都(dou)(dou)是些喜(xi)(xi)歡(huan)損(sun)人利己的物質主義者，她們(men)(men)雙商一般(ban)都(dou)(dou)高，愛慕虛榮，喜(xi)(xi)歡(huan)不(bu)勞而獲，享受追捧。她們(men)(men)的原生家(jia)庭一般(ban)都(dou)(dou)不(bu)富裕，所以她們(men)(men)從小(xiao)就對(dui)于(yu)“小(xiao)便宜”很(hen)在乎。由于(yu)自身收入也不(bu)高，她們(men)(men)往(wang)(wang)往(wang)(wang)對(dui)錢(qian)都(dou)(dou)比較貪，不(bu)管(guan)和誰(shui)相處都(dou)(dou)喜(xi)(xi)歡(huan)斤(jin)斤(jin)計較。她們(men)(men)要么蹭(ceng)吃(chi)蹭(ceng)喝，要么要錢(qian)要包，做到極致就是圖謀家(jia)財。
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