舊時有(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)句(ju)口頭語(yu)：讀了(le)《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)》會(hui)(hui)說(shuo)話。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)》指的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》，這是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)本文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)字淺(qian)顯(xian)而(er)(er)(er)內容(rong)深(shen)刻(ke)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)國學讀物(wu)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)由流(liu)行(xing)(xing)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)泛(fan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)民間(jian)俗(su)語(yu)及(ji)古代詩(shi)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)中(zhong)(zhong)深(shen)含寓意的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)流(liu)暢語(yu)句(ju)匯(hui)編(bian)而(er)(er)(er)成。“集韻(yun)增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)，多見多聞”，這是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)部值得(de)我們細細品味(wei)和(he)研讀的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)經典(dian)。今天(tian)，詩(shi)詞君(jun)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)介紹《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》精華10句(ju)，揭穿人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)性，藏著社會(hui)(hui)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)存必備的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)技能(neng)。1逢人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)且(qie)說(shuo)三分(fen)(fen)話，未可全拋一(yi)(yi)(yi)片心(xin)(xin)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】與(yu)他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)說(shuo)話時，要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)留(liu)有(you)余(yu)地，別(bie)(bie)(bie)把心(xin)(xin)里(li)想(xiang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)全部說(shuo)出(chu)來(lai)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】害人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)心(xin)(xin)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可有(you)，防人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)心(xin)(xin)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可無(wu)。與(yu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相處(chu)應該坦(tan)誠(cheng)相待，但是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)毫無(wu)戒備。面對(dui)紛繁(fan)復雜的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)際(ji)關系(xi) ，謹言(yan)慎行(xing)(xing)才能(neng)避(bi)免吃虧受(shou)(shou)挫(cuo)。2饒人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)癡(chi)漢，癡(chi)漢不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)饒人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】能(neng)寬恕別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)傻(sha)瓜(gua)，真正(zheng)(zheng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)傻(sha)瓜(gua)總是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)斤斤計較，從(cong)(cong)來(lai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)寬恕別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】得(de)饒人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)處(chu)且(qie)饒人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。寬恕別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種愚蠢的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)行(xing)(xing)為(wei)(wei)，懂得(de)寬恕的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)智(zhi)者不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)傻(sha)瓜(gua)。有(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)位哲人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)曾經說(shuo)過：一(yi)(yi)(yi)只(zhi)(zhi)腳(jiao)踩扁了(le)紫(zi)羅蘭，它卻把香味(wei)留(liu)在腳(jiao)跟上(shang)，這就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)寬恕。3誰人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)背后無(wu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)說(shuo)，哪個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)前(qian)(qian)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)說(shuo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)？《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】有(you)誰背后不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)被(bei)他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)議(yi)論(lun)(lun)(lun)，又(you)有(you)誰在他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)面前(qian)(qian)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)議(yi)論(lun)(lun)(lun)過別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)？【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)于世，從(cong)(cong)來(lai)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)獨立存在的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，或(huo)(huo)多或(huo)(huo)少會(hui)(hui)成為(wei)(wei)別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)議(yi)論(lun)(lun)(lun)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)對(dui)象。從(cong)(cong)容(rong)面對(dui)他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)議(yi)論(lun)(lun)(lun)，有(you)則(ze)(ze)改之(zhi)(zhi)，無(wu)則(ze)(ze)加勉，方(fang)為(wei)(wei)雅量之(zhi)(zhi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。4貧居鬧(nao)市無(wu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)問(wen)，富(fu)在深(shen)山(shan)有(you)遠親(qin)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】貧窮(qiong)時，住在鬧(nao)市也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)無(wu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)理(li)睬，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)富(fu)貴了(le)，住在深(shen)山(shan)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)有(you)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)登門認親(qin)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】趨(qu)利避(bi)害是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)常情(qing)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)情(qing)冷暖(nuan)，世態(tai)炎涼，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)每(mei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都(dou)能(neng)達到高尚的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)境界(jie)。只(zhi)(zhi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)保(bao)持一(yi)(yi)(yi)顆平靜的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)態(tai)，享受(shou)(shou)鬧(nao)市中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)清凈(jing)和(he)深(shen)山(shan)中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)繁(fan)華，順其自然就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)好(hao)(hao)。5為(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)虧心(xin)(xin)事(shi)(shi)(shi)，半(ban)夜敲門心(xin)(xin)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)驚。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】平日如果不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)虧心(xin)(xin)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)事(shi)(shi)(shi)情(qing)，深(shen)夜聽到敲門聲就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)害怕。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)(yi)(yi)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)，最重(zhong)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)問(wen)心(xin)(xin)無(wu)愧。只(zhi)(zhi)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)壞事(shi)(shi)(shi)，心(xin)(xin)里(li)坦(tan)蕩，則(ze)(ze)萬(wan)事(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)驚。做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)賊的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)永遠心(xin)(xin)虛，心(xin)(xin)懷(huai)坦(tan)蕩的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，內心(xin)(xin)永遠安寧。6來(lai)說(shuo)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)者，便是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】前(qian)(qian)來(lai)對(dui)你(ni)議(yi)論(lun)(lun)(lun)別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，其實他就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)制造是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】警惕搬弄是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)、挑撥離(li)(li)間(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)認知，會(hui)(hui)被(bei)他們帶(dai)偏，生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)會(hui)(hui)搞得(de)烏煙(yan)瘴氣。莫道是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)非(fei)(fei)，守口如瓶，是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)珍貴的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)道德修養。7久住令人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)賤，頻(pin)來(lai)親(qin)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)疏(shu)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】長期寄住在別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)家里(li)，會(hui)(hui)遭受(shou)(shou)別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)嫌棄；親(qin)戚間(jian)過分(fen)(fen)頻(pin)繁(fan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)往來(lai)反而(er)(er)(er)會(hui)(hui)導致關系(xi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)疏(shu)遠。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】距離(li)(li)產生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)美，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)與(yu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)交往需要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)保(bao)持一(yi)(yi)(yi)定的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)距離(li)(li)。即(ji)(ji)使是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)再親(qin)密的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)親(qin)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)或(huo)(huo)朋友，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可能(neng)對(dui)自己毫無(wu)保(bao)留(liu)。每(mei)個(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都(dou)需要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)有(you)自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)私(si)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)空間(jian)，而(er)(er)(er)頻(pin)繁(fan)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)往來(lai)或(huo)(huo)交往會(hui)(hui)給他人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)帶(dai)來(lai)負擔(dan)(dan)。8力(li)(li)微休負重(zhong)，言(yan)輕(qing)莫勸(quan)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】身體單(dan)薄無(wu)力(li)(li)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)去(qu)背負重(zhong)物(wu)，說(shuo)話沒有(you)分(fen)(fen)量就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)去(qu)規勸(quan)別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。承(cheng)擔(dan)(dan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)起，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)去(qu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)；人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)微言(yan)輕(qing)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)說(shuo)客(ke)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】為(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)處(chu)世量力(li)(li)而(er)(er)(er)行(xing)(xing)。做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)事(shi)(shi)(shi)之(zhi)(zhi)前(qian)(qian)，先考慮(lv)下自己是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)否有(you)能(neng)力(li)(li)承(cheng)擔(dan)(dan)這樣(yang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)責任。凡事(shi)(shi)(shi)量力(li)(li)而(er)(er)(er)行(xing)(xing)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)因(yin)為(wei)(wei)無(wu)法實現諾言(yan)而(er)(er)(er)苦惱，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)用承(cheng)擔(dan)(dan)自不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)量力(li)(li)帶(dai)來(lai)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)困(kun)擾(rao)，那么，別(bie)(bie)(bie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)因(yin)你(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)無(wu)法承(cheng)擔(dan)(dan)而(er)(er)(er)產生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)怨(yuan)言(yan)。9寧可正(zheng)(zheng)而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)足(zu)(zu)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可邪而(er)(er)(er)有(you)余(yu)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】寧肯做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)正(zheng)(zheng)直(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)而(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活貧困(kun)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)奸邪的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)而(er)(er)(er)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活富(fu)足(zu)(zu)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】寧肯做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)坦(tan)坦(tan)蕩蕩的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)窮(qiong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)去(qu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)有(you)錢的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)壞人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)。為(wei)(wei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)正(zheng)(zheng)派，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)走邪路，即(ji)(ji)使受(shou)(shou)窮(qiong)也(ye)(ye)(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)暫(zan)時的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)為(wei)(wei)眼前(qian)(qian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)利益改變善良(liang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)本性，機遇不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)會(hui)(hui)棄正(zheng)(zheng)直(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)而(er)(er)(er)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)顧。10但行(xing)(xing)好(hao)(hao)事(shi)(shi)(shi)，莫問(wen)前(qian)(qian)程(cheng)。《增(zeng)廣(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)(guang)賢(xian)文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)》【譯文(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)(wen)】一(yi)(yi)(yi)心(xin)(xin)去(qu)做(zuo)(zuo)(zuo)好(hao)(hao)事(shi)(shi)(shi)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)要(yao)(yao)(yao)(yao)問(wen)前(qian)(qian)途怎樣(yang)。【感(gan)(gan)悟(wu)】急人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)之(zhi)(zhi)難是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種高尚的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)情(qing)操，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)求(qiu)回報是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)種理(li)智(zhi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)態(tai)度。少一(yi)(yi)(yi)分(fen)(fen)斤斤計較，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)會(hui)(hui)多一(yi)(yi)(yi)份怡然自得(de)。

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