作者(zhe)：彩云追月，來(lai)源(yuan)：百草園書店（Bai-Cao-Yuan）能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)言(yan)(yan)，能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)事(shi)(shi)，需要(yao)寬(kuan)闊(kuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)胸和(he)可(ke)貴的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)素養(yang)。能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，就是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)(da)格(ge)局！古人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)云：君(jun)子(zi)者(zhe)，可(ke)忍(ren)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)所不(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)忍(ren)，容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)所不(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，處(chu)(chu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)所不(bu)(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)處(chu)(chu)。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)在世，絕(jue)不(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)孤立(li)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)存在，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)要(yao)面向紛繁的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)世界，要(yao)處(chu)(chu)理好(hao)身邊(bian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)和(he)事(shi)(shi)，委(wei)實不(bu)(bu)(bu)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)易。能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)真得(de)(de)(de)(de)了(le)(le)不(bu)(bu)(bu)起！人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都愛聽好(hao)話(hua)(hua)，喜(xi)歡被(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)恭維(wei)，而那(nei)些(xie)(xie)(xie)大(da)(da)(da)實話(hua)(hua)則(ze)常(chang)(chang)常(chang)(chang)惹人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)煩或讓人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)反感。人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)們大(da)(da)(da)都是(shi)(shi)(shi)這(zhe)樣，分明知道甜言(yan)(yan)蜜語好(hao)聽，但忽略了(le)(le)里面摻雜著(zhu)虛偽，卻百聽不(bu)(bu)(bu)厭(yan)(yan)，滿臉(lian)笑(xiao)顏，一(yi)旦聽到逆(ni)著(zhu)耳忠言(yan)(yan)，就心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)生(sheng)厭(yan)(yan)煩，甚至(zhi)會(hui)火冒三丈(zhang)，結仇結怨(yuan)。有些(xie)(xie)(xie)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)直(zhi)口快(kuai)，表里如(ru)(ru)一(yi)，與(yu)身邊(bian)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)，該說(shuo)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)話(hua)(hua)不(bu)(bu)(bu)假思索，這(zhe)未(wei)必(bi)是(shi)(shi)(shi)壞事(shi)(shi)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)可(ke)以幫助(zhu)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)反思錯誤，改正缺點。請善待對你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)說(shuo)真話(hua)(hua)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，學會(hui)以寬(kuan)大(da)(da)(da)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)胸懷容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)事(shi)(shi)、容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)言(yan)(yan)。如(ru)(ru)果你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)遇到了(le)(le)對你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)直(zhi)言(yan)(yan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)諱的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，那(nei)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)福氣(qi)(qi)，或許(xu)(xu)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)貴人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，或許(xu)(xu)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)會(hui)給(gei)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)指點迷津，或許(xu)(xu)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)會(hui)助(zhu)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)走向成(cheng)(cheng)功，或許(xu)(xu)他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)會(hui)讓你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)一(yi)生(sheng)順(shun)暢。如(ru)(ru)果一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)量(liang)(liang)太小(xiao)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)就難(nan)成(cheng)(cheng)大(da)(da)(da)器。凡事(shi)(shi)都在人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為，心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)大(da)(da)(da)了(le)(le)，事(shi)(shi)就小(xiao)了(le)(le)；心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)小(xiao)了(le)(le)，事(shi)(shi)就大(da)(da)(da)了(le)(le)。你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)得(de)(de)(de)(de)下(xia)多(duo)(duo)少(shao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，就能(neng)(neng)溝通(tong)和(he)收(shou)獲多(duo)(duo)少(shao)顆(ke)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)；你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)得(de)(de)(de)(de)下(xia)多(duo)(duo)少(shao)事(shi)(shi)，就能(neng)(neng)解決多(duo)(duo)少(shao)問(wen)題。心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)胸狹隘(ai)之人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，處(chu)(chu)處(chu)(chu)斤(jin)斤(jin)計(ji)較，患得(de)(de)(de)(de)患失，時時與(yu)別人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)斗氣(qi)(qi)，最終必(bi)然失人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，難(nan)成(cheng)(cheng)大(da)(da)(da)事(shi)(shi)。心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)胸寬(kuan)廣之人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，吃得(de)(de)(de)(de)下(xia)虧，忍(ren)得(de)(de)(de)(de)下(xia)氣(qi)(qi)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)會(hui)將一(yi)切(qie)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)煩惱(nao)憂愁以笑(xiao)置之。他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)常(chang)(chang)懷一(yi)顆(ke)平常(chang)(chang)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，臉(lian)上時刻掛(gua)著(zhu)快(kuai)樂的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)笑(xiao)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，因此他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)會(hui)贏得(de)(de)(de)(de)好(hao)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)緣，贏得(de)(de)(de)(de)眾人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)工作、事(shi)(shi)業一(yi)帆風順(shun)。寬(kuan)宏(hong)大(da)(da)(da)量(liang)(liang)，與(yu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)為善的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)靈的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)天(tian)空(kong)云淡(dan)風輕，他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)生(sheng)將是(shi)(shi)(shi)前(qian)程似錦。做(zuo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)一(yi)輩子(zi)，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)品是(shi)(shi)(shi)牌子(zi)，形(xing)象(xiang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)面子(zi)，修養(yang)是(shi)(shi)(shi)底子(zi)。心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)地要(yao)陽光善良，為人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)要(yao)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)胸寬(kuan)廣，處(chu)(chu)事(shi)(shi)要(yao)誠信正直(zhi)。聞褒言(yan)(yan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)喜(xi)，聞諍言(yan)(yan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)怒，聞錯言(yan)(yan)不(bu)(bu)(bu)怨(yuan)；容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)言(yan)(yan)勿(wu)(wu)壓制，容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)過勿(wu)(wu)苛(ke)求，容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)嫌(xian)勿(wu)(wu)報復。要(yao)懂得(de)(de)(de)(de)，生(sheng)氣(qi)(qi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)如(ru)(ru)爭氣(qi)(qi)，賭氣(qi)(qi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)如(ru)(ru)消氣(qi)(qi)，小(xiao)氣(qi)(qi)不(bu)(bu)(bu)如(ru)(ru)大(da)(da)(da)氣(qi)(qi)。路窄時，讓一(yi)步他(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)(ta)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)走；吃虧時，笑(xiao)一(yi)笑(xiao)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)里安；酸澀(se)時，挺一(yi)挺化作甜；被(bei)傷時，抬(tai)抬(tai)手怒氣(qi)(qi)散。心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)慈悲，胸放寬(kuan)，真誠處(chu)(chu)，莫記怨(yuan)，心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)里時時都溫暖，生(sheng)活處(chu)(chu)處(chu)(chu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)晴(qing)天(tian)。金無足赤，人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)無完人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，每個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)都有自己的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)優點和(he)缺點。與(yu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)，大(da)(da)(da)度些(xie)(xie)(xie)，理解些(xie)(xie)(xie)，寬(kuan)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)些(xie)(xie)(xie)，瀟灑些(xie)(xie)(xie)，一(yi)切(qie)不(bu)(bu)(bu)愉快(kuai)都會(hui)煙消云散。容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)怯懦，不(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)軟弱，也不(bu)(bu)(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)縱容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，而是(shi)(shi)(shi)心(xin)(xin)(xin)(xin)胸大(da)(da)(da)度的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)表現。你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)若容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)，才(cai)(cai)能(neng)(neng)被(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)敬(jing)；你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)若寬(kuan)厚，才(cai)(cai)能(neng)(neng)被(bei)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)寬(kuan)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)。能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)品格(ge)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)涵養(yang)，是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)胸懷，是(shi)(shi)(shi)一(yi)個(ge)(ge)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)形(xing)象(xiang)。忍(ren)一(yi)時風平浪(lang)靜，退一(yi)步海闊(kuo)天(tian)空(kong)。“能(neng)(neng)容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)”的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)力量(liang)(liang)無可(ke)比擬，讓容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)、容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)言(yan)(yan)、容(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)(rong)事(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)美德，養(yang)大(da)(da)(da)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)做(zuo)人(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)格(ge)局！

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